and NO that doesn't mean it was just me and my husband hoping and praying that my husband figured out fast how to catch a baby. We had a midwife there, we had a back up plan just in case and we were smart about it. My husband did catch the baby but the midwife was standing by just in case he froze or whatever else could happen. My son was born Sept 11th of 2010 with no drugs, no interference, and my husband was there encouraging me, loving me and supporting me every step of the way. No it doesn't make me insane, no it doesn't make me uneducated, NOPE I really didn't put my life or the life of my child into any danger.
We will be doing it again!! I see a midwife every 3 weeks, she checks me and the little one inside me. My body doesn't need someone else to tell it what to do, women have been doing this for years! Please don't misunderstand me, this is what worked for me and my husband but it's not for everyone and I understand that. I had 2 babies in a hospital before I ever had one at home. I wont judge how you birthed your child, it's what you thought would be best and that's what matters, just don't judge me for how I birthed. This is what I think is best for me and my babies, my husband agrees!!
Being a mommy is hard enough, don't you think we should stop looking at each other judging every step of the way?? Your kid is healthy and so are mine, and even if they weren't it's not my place to say what happens in your house!!
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